| Location | Miami |
| Age | 4 months |
| Cause of Death | Cot Death/Sudden Infant Death Syndrome |
| Date of Birth | 31/05/2007 |
| Date of Death | 04/10/2007 |
| Visitors | 1,435 since 31/08/2008 |
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My name is Cary, I have been married for 7 years. I have a 3 year old little girl and my sweet son,
Daniel who passed away at 4 months of age during his day time nap on Oct. 4, 2007. I went to check
on him for a second time and he looked like he was still asleep. I had an inner voice telling me to
check to see if he was breathing and I turned back to check only to find that he was not breathing.
I still can't believe that he is gone. He was a wonderful, healthy and happy baby. I miss him dearly
and I think about him every single day. His C.O.D. is natural death/Anoxic/Hypoxic Encephalopathy
and Bronchopneumonia due to Infantile Reflux and Aspiration While Sleeping. We are currently in the
process for a second opinion from another medical examiner.
Daniel's Dragonfly signs:
It all started when my sister had clipped a dragon fly pin on a beautiful blanket she made for
Daniel which was buried with him. So far on different occasions I have had encounters with dragon
flies, one has flown towards me, another towards my daughter and another which flew in front of my
car on a red light and in the middle of a very busy street, just after I had asked Daniel the night
before on his website’s candle for him to keep sending me dragon flies because I know they had
come from him. I also saw some dragon flies in the back yard of a house we went to see for sale. My
sister happened to be with me during my first encounter of the dragon flies, (the one that flew
towards my daughter). My sister and I looked at each other and she said, “You see, Daniel is with
us”. As I told my sister about my second encounter which is the one that flew towards me while I
was standing in a big line to ride the go-carts in Disney World, I had told her how I had to put my
hand on my face to block the dragon fly from bumping into my face! It is then when my sister had
mentioned that during the funeral as she placed the beautiful blanket with the dragon fly clip on
Daniel, she had told him to always stay close to us and to help guide us. Another dragon fly
incident happend after I had decided to put on this springtime plastic table cloth on my table which
I had always put on for the last few years (during the spring) Daniel passed away on October, so I
haven’t seen this table cloth since before he was born. The night just before that day, I had
added Daniel's dragon fly picture with his face on it along with the caption dedicated to him. As I
started to put on the table cloth, I noticed for the first time ever, that each of springtime
flowers imprinted on the table cloth had dragon flies next to them! I just can’t believe I have
never noticed them before! Well, I took it as another sign! Twice so far on different occasions I
have also seen dragon flies painted on different items inside two different grocery stores that I
had visited lately. The both times I saw these dragon flies, I had been thinking of Daniel and his
dragon fly signs that very same day. Other Dragon flies signs have just practically shown up on many
different occasions in all shapes and forms and I believe they are like a reminder that my Daniel is
really still here with me. It is truly amazing!
Friday, August 15, 2008 - Daniel's most amazing sign yet!
Today around 10:00 my supervisor told me that they needed me to go work at the main office. So I
went and during lunch time I ate lunch at their new food court and bought a sub from Subway. I sat
near their big window and stared outside and noticed a lot of dragonflies flying around. Suddenly I
heard in the background in a low volume a song that reminds me of him and of dragonflies flying
around. Still, I did not think much of it since dragonflies happen to be almost everywhere I go
these days and even over the roof of my house. I had the whole place practically to myself and all
of the sudden a guy decides to sit directly in front of me and blocked most of my view. I continued
to eat my sandwich as I looked outside around the guy and I listened to this same song. All of the
sudden the guy makes a phone call on his cell phone and his first words are, “Hello, is this
Daniel?” I was so surprised that I opened my eyes wide open and also noticed that the guy was
looking at me at the same time!
Later on while working at the 4th floor, I looked outside at a window across me and looked out for
more dragonflies, but thought that I was too high up and thought that it would be interesting and
perhaps impossible to see a dragonfly fly so high. Time quickly went by and I suddenly looked
outside again and saw two dragonflies pop in front of the window about ¾ way up and back down
again, I thought NO WAY! I kept looking out to see if they would pass by again and sure enough they
did – the two dragonflies flew across the middle of the window this time. They were so BIG and
beautiful!
What so weird and amazing about all of this is that just last night I watched, “Dragonfly” the
movie that my co-worker told me about after telling her about my dragonfly signs and she mentioned
that they were coincidences.
A Birthday In Heaven - Author Unknown
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel xxx
The moment that you died
my heart was torn in two,
one side filled with heartache,
the other died with you.
I often lie awake at night,
when the world is fast asleep,
and take a walk down memory lane,
with tears upon my cheeks.
Remembering you is easy,
I do it everyday,
but missing you is heartache
that never goes away.
I hold you tightly within my heart
and there you will remain
*******Sending lots of love *********
Hugs and Kisses forever more
*X*X*X*X*X*X*X*X*X*X*X
Sleep Tight and have Sweetdreams
x * x * x * x * x * x * x * x * x * x *
Evening Angel sorry i havent been
on for a couple of days , have the
winter bug x so i will pop on when i
better x x x x x
Got a picture of you I carry in my heart,
Close my eyes to see it when the world gets dark,
Got a memory of you I carry in my soul,
I wrap it close around me when the nights get cold,
If you ask me how I'm doing I'd say just fine,
But the truth is, if you could read my mind,
Not a day goes by, that I don't think of you,
After all this time, you're still with me it's true,
Somehow you remain, locked
+ . . * + * * . + * .*.++
. * + * JUST * + .
+ . . * + . + * . * +
* . + *SHOWING .* + .
+ . . * + . + * . * + .
+ , *SOME. + * LUV+ *
+ . . * + . + * . * + .*
.TO * * + . * THIS.* .
. * + * * + . *+ *
+ ..ANGEL.. * + . +
+ ....* + . + * . * +
GOOD NIGHT XXXXX
As you release this butterfly in honour of me,
know that I'm with you and will always be.
Hold a hand, say a prayer, close your eyes and see me there.
Although you may feel a bit torn apart,
please know that I'll be forever in your heart.
Now fly away butterfly as high as you can go,
I'm right there with you more than you know.
xxxxx
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We had so little time to share,
Too soon, I had to leave.
I know how much you love me,
I know how much you grieve.
I know how sharp your pain is,
I feel the aching in your hearts.
My life so quickly ended
Before it barely had a start.
I remember how you held me,
And kissed my face and hands,
You cuddled me so gently;
But, God had other plans.
I was your perfect angel,
From God you knew I came,
Suddenly he called me home again,
And now God holds my hand.
I know you’ll always miss me,
I understand your pain is hard to bear.
Just remember that I’m in heaven
And we’ll see each other there.
So smile when you think of me
and wipe away all of your tears
I’m cuddled now in heaven
By our family members here.
I’m waiting here in heaven,
And on the day we meet again.
I’ll be the first to smile and greet you,
When God calls you home to him.
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Sending you a great big hug ,
with lots of love
x x x x x x x x
Hope you enjoy the fireworks from your big
fluffy clouds up in heaven x x
Sleep Tight x x
May you always walk in sunshine and God’s love around you flow, for the happiness you gave us, no one will ever know, it broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone, a part of us went with you, the day God called you home. A million times we’ve needed you. A million times we’ve cried. If love could only have saved you. You never would have died. xxxxxxx
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